Thanks everyone, to answer and reply all in one go.
As much as Heather advocates the Pelham, I can't do 2 reins all the time, I'm rubbish and it drives me nuts, also you right about her low palate, there is literaly no room in her mouth. I also want a bit that is dressage legal really as I would like to do some prelims just for fun.
She isn't a baby in body anymore (just in mind
) although she is late backed, Livvi will be 8 this year and has had her teeth done regularily.
Olivia, where did you get a really thin one, its what we have but its too thick.
I will look at the site, thanks woody
eta, Ukika, I don't think she would like the nutcracker action but I haven't actually tried