well i've only just seen this topic!
at the risk of being repetitive (IW's answer was spot-on imho)
the shoulder-in demands the horse to engage his hip joint, hock, and fetlock on his inside hind to remain balanced, which shifts his weight to his quarters and relieves his shoulders and forehand of the load
benefits:
- deepens the hindquarters and elevates the forehand - because the horse has to engage his hindquarters to perform the movement, the weight is lifted off his forehand, which supples both hindlegs and haunches
-strengthens the horse's back - the shift of weight to the hindquarters strengthens the back and loins, giving the horse the physical capacity to achieve higher collection and perform more complex moves. the horse will begin to develop a rounded appearance as he becomes stronger and more flexible
next question should be, "list the aids for shoulder-in"

so, to stimulate more discussion

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your weight should be on your inside seat bone and your body should very slightly be turned to the inside (be careful not to collapse at the waist)
inside hand: softly ask for a flexion to the inside
outside hand: support the horse's shoulder and indicate the direction with the outside rein.
i'm leaving the leg position aiding for someone else
