it is totally impossible to relax the arm, shoulders, back etc with your arms out in front - just to try walking around like this for a few minutes makes me realise just how difficult it is let alone trying to train a horse at the same time

I wonder if instructors pic on other things first with a novice rider as they don't want to overload things

, maybe if at some point they want the rider to stabilise the hands on the front of the saddle for example they don't want to then go back and say they now need something different

....off to find a well schooled warmblood to play on

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