Hi Guys,
I am really lucky to have the opportunity to ride a schoolmaster horse over the winter and hopefully further improve my riding. He is very responsive and used to being ridden correctly in a rounded outline. Up until recently I have always ridden with quite loose reins in order to ensure that I am gentle with the horses mouth...and have also ridden with fairly low hands-this is because my last share horse was an arab x with a naturally high head carriage and I was trying also to encourage him to relax...but I guess I was really giving the contact away and inadvertantly not encouraging a rounded outline because of this? With this new schoolmaster I have taken up a shorter rein and have lifted my hands slightly, as he used to doing dressage and being ridden like this... I still have a habit of just holding the reins with my thumb and index finger and alllowing my other fingers to uncurl...my instructor has said that i am effetcively giving away the contact/giving inconsistent contact...I guess I am struggling to make the move to this more 'classic' way of riding and may be uncurling my fingers to remain light and kind as I am afraid of going to the opposite extreme of being heavy...
I will get to the point:
1) Should all fingers be wrapped around the rein...even when you release with the hands?
2) Should your hands stay at the same place on the reins? I find that i keep reajusting from time to time...e.g. sometimes on a circle I amhaving to shorten the reins as the horse takes more of an outline? I worry that I am fussing too much and really want to develop 'stillness' or at least the appareance of it when riding...
3) How long does it take to develop 'feel' i.e. to know when to release the reins and when to 'play' to encourage an 'oultine'? At the moment i find that i am having to look down at the horse to see whether he is carrying himself correctly - i.e. whether his nose is vertical (i know the movemt should come from his back raising and rounding but don't quite trust myself to pick up on this yet and am concerned that i am not going to release quick enough when he is working well.
4) How much 'release' of the rein should there be...is it a matter of millimeters?
5) When asking for an outline is it a matter of alternating squeezing the reins with the use of the legs? If so both legs alternating? when is the correct balance/ratio of legs to hands?
6)Also, how early is each schooling session should i be shortening the reins and be asking for an outline/picking up a contact...
Sorry for all the questions and if i have got some of the ideas wrong...any tips/advice needed and much welcomed

I just wnat to make sure that I am riding this horse correctly and also reinfrcing and building correct riding habits
Cheryl x