Hi SueC, Naiad, and Trish,
Thank-you for your comments.

Im glad you all think the lunge lesson was fun-it really was ...and Naiad, as an avid reader of your posts, i really agree that lunging helps and loved reading abut your lessons

-when is the next installment? My instructor is lovely (she is still training to be an instructor) and i will mention the EE teacher courses to her for sure...and Crystal is gorgeus isn't he

Just a couple of questions (sorry-i always seem to have to write an essay!!

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SueC do you think a seatbone saver will help me to stop hollowing myself and sit on my seatbones??? The only thing i would worry about is losing even more sense of the horses movement (that said with a treed saddle i don’t really feel lots-nothing compared to bareback anyhow!) If it would help i would like to look into it-is there just one size?
A criticism would be that you can't really sit the trot properly, unless it's kept really, really slow, until the horse is more rounded. You bounce because he is hollowing and this is uncomfortable for both of you.
This is really interesting and I assume will have a knock on effect when i ride him out and he sometimes jog trots or trots at super speed-i try to sit deeply to slow him but i guess this will have little effect then if he is hollow? When i first met him and viewed him being ridden he was quite hollow with a tendency to stick his neck up in the air-i try to ride with a looser rein to encourage him to work long/low and stretch and relax but when he gets speedier (active trot, transition to canter...) he does tend to hollow as you said-I know you said to check his saddle fit-i will ask about this - but is there something in my riding that is encouraging this-will he mirror my own hollowness? or is there something i can do to help him 'round'?
Your saddle is drawing your legs forward and putting you in a 'chair' seat and although your instructor does recognise when you are sitting better (despite your saddle) and lets you know, she does tell you to tuck your backside under you and grip with your lower leg, which wouldn't really help. I can see what she's trying to do by asking you to do that though.
I think that that i was taught to grip with my knees when i was younger-i now know that this is not the correct way-is gripping (or wrapping) with the lower leg also wrong then? I also find it difficult to tuck my bum under to correct my hollow as in trot i can feel behind the movement-i think instead I need to remember what Heather told me at the Sim workshop abut 'dipping the headlights' as that works on the sim! Any other advice for hollow-backed riders-i think alot of my progress will hinge on me 'fixing' this....
Thank-you for all your feedback and encouragement guys,
Cheryl x
Ps: more feedback welcome…