A very interesting and valid point and one that I came up against in recent months when I was having to decide what I was going to do with Saff. She's my horse for life and I had no intention of giving her up but you never know when your circumstances will change.
I had to think very seriously. Could I loan her out? But who to? Who could I trust her with? If the worst came to the worst who would I sell her to? Could I live with myself knowing that she'd gone to a home that used predominantly negative reinforcement and, possibly, punishment as part of every day training? It wasn't just the clicker training it was also the riding. Could I loan or sell her to someone who would ride in a chair seat and bounce around on her back because they haven't been taught about absorption of the movement?
The answer to those questions was no and I did everything that I possibly could to keep hold of her even though it was, in some ways, to my detriment. Thankfully Paula and Lesley came along and generously offered Saff a place with their herd so the crisis was averted.
Am I doing her a disservice by using predominantly positive reinforcement and classical techniques? Personally I think not, she was a 'difficult' horse when I got her and I've seen her positively bloom using Heather's methods for riding, Becky's methods for in hand and long reining and, of course, clicker. Would I do things differently knowing what I know now? No, absolutely not. As a 5 year old I was told to 'get rid' of her by someone that I trusted, I'm now told how 'lucky' I am to have such a good natured and PLACID horse

I may not be the most skilled person in the world with horses but I don't regret the path that I've taken, the path that I wouldn't have gone down if I hadn't have got her.
I'm not a purist in that I don't use 100% positive reinforcement so Saff is au fait with light negative reinforcement although I have already seen the effects of 'heavier' handling of her in a loss of confidence and an adverse reaction to me just lifting my hand

I suppose that this is where I could have done her a disservice but is it more ethical to train her in such a way as to shut her down from this or to open her up to a kinder way if her predominant experience is going to be the kinder way?
Would I use the same methods if I was a dealer or buying to train and sell on? Realistically, probably not, but then I couldn't bear to part with them anyway, I'd just end up with fields full of horses
