Hi there! I've found my way to EE after having a lesson with Damian Stenton last week - probably the best lesson of my life! Sandpiper is a close friend - she's been gently nagging me for ages (years probably LOL) to give EE a try....so here I am (hi Gill xx).
What took me to Damian and EE? Well, I have a lovely (to me) 15.2hh horse called Beaver (no jokes thanks - I've probably heard them all...and some over tannoys LOL). We've had a chequered relationship over the six years since we first met (long story) and although I love him to bits, we never really "clicked" until a few months ago. I don't know what happened - I just found a new confidence from somewhere. I was also lucky enough to buy Gill's lovely old horsebox from her and this opened up new possibilities for me and Bea.
We went out over the summer to dressage comps at a local riding centre and even qualified for the championship (came last and in the biggest downpour I've ever ridden in - but hey, we had fun!). The judge's comments were consistently encouraging (lovely, obliging horse, good rhythm, nice paces) but every single score sheet had the same comment that Bea needed to work in a softer outline.
I had no idea how to achieve this. I was being encouraged to use a strong contact and get cross with Bea to get him to oblige. The only result was that we both got hot and cross and discouraged. Bea did his best, and sometimes we produced some good work, but it wasn't consistent.
I poured out my worries to Sandpiper and she suggested looking for an EE trainer - and the rest is history. I feel more hopeful and positive now than I ever have! Looking forward to learning more.
