Yep thats me - a sack of spuds !!
I've almost managed to stop clenching my buttocks (a sub conscious thing to do with confidence i think) :blink: ; but get rid of one problem and another one arises !!
I am now, in my fervent attempt to stay relaxed, ending up looking like i've been squashed from a great height. I'm collapsing all over the place !!
Luckily the minute i clench or become squashed my horse stops .... ok in walk, not so good in canter !! I have various problems with my pelvis & hips which don't help .. but i don't want to make excuses i want to get it right (yes i am a closet perfectionist

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Can anyone suggest anything to help ??