Becky & Susan
Thanks alot for the advice - I wasnt able to try anything else out until last night /today as we had the hunt meet at the yard on saturday (excellent when you have an already stressed horse :

) so i gave up over the weekend. I was using a bridle for leading but i think maybe that was actually winding her up more as although sh doesnt mind it, it isnt something she is so used to, so i have dug out my dually halter and we made it up to the school and back this morning without her trying to run round meso thats good (i was using a lunge line anyway). As you say, i need that element of control as well as the CT. She is still stressed at times anyway but i can now see there is also an element of trantrums going on too which i have to nip in the bud (she is charging around the field the minute one horse comes in - and last night it wasnt even her 'buddy' who was still out there with her).
I have been using the Impatiens and also started putting some Tranquil in her feed (valerian based) that i found. So maybe one or both is also helping.
Part of the problem of course is me as its a vicious circle, she is stressing me out, which makes her worse. So i have to work on that too !
alice