While I am positively THRILLED with our performance last week, and really, really pleased with the pictures... I notice in most my lower leg is *still* too far back. My upper body is much better, but just a hair in front of the verticle.
Doing photo critiques are hard--since the photo is static, and the subject is not--but one friend pointed out that I *did* have a straight line ears-elbows-hips-heels, *but* it was slightly slanted--the top of the line just forward of verticle, the bottom just behind.
Another said 'there's just something funky going on in your seat, but I don't know *what*.'
Since my instruction is so few and far between (hoping to squeeze one more in before real winter sets in provided things come together--the truck has been NOT cooperating and feeling VERY unwell though :( ) I am always looking for things I can try on my own that don't require eyes on the ground.
One simple cure for the legs... tie the stirrups to the girth. Obviously with a bit of play, but not so much that my legs can get so far back. There are fancy safety straps to do this with, but back in the day, we did it with good old baling twine. Before I spent the $$ on the retail straps, (or the creativity and $ on a homemade version) I figured I'd try the twine and see if it would work.
WHAT A REVELATION! :blink:
From the moment I got in the saddle I could feel how I wanted to put my feet too far back. And when I couldn't, my upper body felt very upright and natural, and my seat felt ENTIRELY different. I realized a couple of things; My hips need to be even MORE open (groan... :blink: didn't think THAT was possible) my calves needed to do MUCH more aiding than they were (heels wanted to creep up--part of the 'back' thing) but the biggest was how much weight I had in the stirrups and not in my seat. Was only a brief ride due to work and schedule and such, but eyeopening.
Then in a phone conversation last night with a faraway friend who has been teaching French/Portuguese school for a very long time... she put her finger on something that NO one has... and that I had already started to realize.
She said, "You need to STOP HOVERING and SIT DOWN on him."
Sounds simple enough. I mean, I ride bareback... and when I'm bareback he goes WONDERFULLY... and when I'm bareback, I have no CHOICE but to let my weight into my seat and upper thighs...

DOH!!!
It's a phenomenon she's seen in other large riders--or just riders who THINK they are large. (women--never seen a man *hover* unless he was protecting himself in a poor fitting saddle...

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Now, we're not talking 'taking a bit of weight into the stirrups' as when you piaffe or passage... or, rather, I guess we *are*, but I unconsciously do that ALL THE TIME. I think it's a defensive mechanism, a subconscious thing that I want to protect and save the horse's back...
But Mac can easily carry me. Will he carry me BETTER in 50lbs more lost? Of course. But smaller horses have carried larger men for very long periods of time doing much harder work... and lived.

I recall when I worked on the Ranch, for the hardest work--longest hours, or faster, more intense work--my favorite horses were very small, 13.3-14.2, tops. When I first started there I always went for the big 16h guys, then soon realized the smaller ones were handier and hardier and we fared much better for the really tough stuff like moving cattle or pushing the herd of 110 horses to winter pasture etc.
I think when my teacher wants me to 'post higher' it's not so much that he wants more air time, but what that is accomplishing is sitting deeper when I sit the post.
I'm not quite sure how I'm going to 'translate' this into practice... I am going to tie the stirrups for a bit, that's for sure... and drop them for more of the time as well... more bareback is a given now that it's almost snow season. (Already chose bb over the saddle 2x last week because it was just too raw and cold, and it's not even winter yet!

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I'm very hopeful that this is kind of that last piece of the puzzle so to speak. We've been progressing in leaps and bounds, but still been just shy of really, truly correct position on my part.
(I *am* asking Santa to help fund a trip to Heather's next year--I just think the equistimulator is exactly what I need, since I don't process learning quite as easily as I could, and I'm definitely not a biomechanically-feeling rider...

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Would love to hear from anyone whose overcome this... or just anyone who might be experiencing the same. It's probably a very, very long ingrained habit, since I've pretty much always been heavy for my size.
attching a couple of photos just for reference--these are where friend spotted the issue.